You see, I pretty much talked about how many games we won/lost, and what we did at nationals. But there's more to an event than what you do.
We only won one game at nationals. Yeah, I know I "forgot" to mention that in my least post, but hey, it's not exactly something I was proud of. I mean, who likes losing?
Still, I think there are some things that are hard to learn unless you lose occasionally.
For example, I had sort of put all my "volleyball hopes" into this season. This season, we had six senior hitters, a team that gelled (or "mushed" in Marteney terms :) ) better than last year, and more height than we'll have next year. I got into the mindset that "this was it," and placed too much focus on winning, rather than having fun and honoring God. It's easy to have a great attitude when you're getting your way, but it was harder to be encouraging and enthusiastic when you're getting beat 25-14 most games. But my attitude shouldn't change based on the score-board! I learned that my competitive nature, though sometimes useful, can get in the way of glorifying God.
Also, when I or somebody else is having a bad game, it's easy to get down on yourself. I used to think that getting upset at yourself is "humble," and that it motivates you to work harder. However, when you get so self-absorbed and depressed that you basically give up, you don't just hurt yourself, you hurt your team. I'm guilty of doing this, although I am working on it. But so many other things I think only affect me actually affect others, too. Bad attitudes are contagious. Sin spreads and hurts others. Though I'm not a stand-out leader, I am surrounded by people who are impacted by the decisions I make. Am I being selfish or selfless with the gifts and opportunities I've been given?
Enough with my ramblings!! Time for the pretty pictures part of this post! I know some of my friends don't have access to the pictures, so here they are!
Love the pictures, Hannah!
ReplyDeleteUmm, so yeah, next year and height. Will it be fun to say you have a team under 5'6"?
Mom and I were trying to figure out HOW that guy ended up there! Does his family homeschool? Was his daughter REALLY tall? Like REALLY, REALLY tall? And are they considering moving to Manhattan?? ;)
Haha, yeah, he didn't seem to interested in a Manhattan move... :( I'm pretty sure they homeschool, since it was a homeschool tourney and his daughter was playing. I'd say his daughter was 5'10 ISH (I don't remember exactly, she was really good,though!
ReplyDeleteAWW! Thanks for posting the pretty pictures - you are SO thoughtful. They did turn out great! We are so cute:) Haha, yes ... good lessons indeed (it makes for a good story!) Although seriously, I really liked your thoughts about putting too much emphasis on this being "it" ... I'm guilty of it. Thanks for te reminder - it applies in more areas than volleyball!
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad you liked the pictures! Thanks for commenting, it makes my day!
DeleteWow, I didn't realize how long it's been since I commented on your blog!! I swear I've been reading it! The commenting part just kind of slipped my notice.... :) :)
ReplyDeleteYou girls are just beautiful. Every single one of you. I love these pictures.
And I've really enjoyed hearing about Nationals!!!
Haha, I do the same thing to you: When I read your blog, I always think to myself, "Aww, I really like this idea!" or, "This is REALLY good!" and then I forget to tell you. :) So I guess we're even.
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